1. Make friends as opposed to networking
交朋友但不只是社交
Your friends will go a lot further than the professional contacts you make, especially since only one of the two groups is invested in your personal happiness.
多和你的朋友沟通交流比你联系专业人士交流探讨要强，尤其是专业人士和朋友圈子这两组人群，只有你的朋友圈子才是你个人幸福的投资方向。
2. Become an expert by learning as much as you can and deeply seeking out the things you are curious about
尽量通过多学习的方式成为专家，并对自己所好奇的方面执着地探求
Find the things you enjoy and practice the skills you want to develop. If you can achieve expertise then it will be easy to obtain an audience.
找到你喜欢做的事情并争取达到熟能生巧的地步。如果你能达到专业的高度，那么就会很容易赢得观众。
3. Volunteer to help out those less fortunate
自愿帮助那些不幸的人
In the process you will gain a ton of new perspective and will better understand other people’s real problems. In a society that always looks upward, these people are being forgotten easily.
在这个过程中你会获得多个新的视角，会更加理解别人所遇到的实际问题。在我们当今这个非常势力的社会中，这个人群很容易被遗忘。
4. Become as independent as possible
尽量自立
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